I am a big believer in Dreaming and Dreaming BIG. However, I am also very well aware that you have to put feet to your dreams if they are to become a reality. You have to have a specific plan and strategies for achieving those dreams.
In my last blog, I listed five of the 10 questions John Maxwell says every person should ask themselves in regard to their dreams and desires. Today I’m listing the remaining five:
6. The People Question: Have I Included the People I need to Realize My Dream?
No matter what your dream is—whether as artist or entrepreneur, politician or Nobel Prize winner—you will be interacting with other people. Unless your dream is to work in a vacuum and be unknown to everyone, you’ll have to learn to work with others as partners or patrons, bosses or colleagues, clients or constituents, customers or critics. People may be a big factor or a small one, depending on what you desire to do. But, no matter what, you will have to include people if you want to realize your dream.
7. The Cost Question: Am I Willing to Pay the Price for My Dream?
There isn’t a single person in the world who has achieved a dream without paying a price for it. Some pay with their lives or their freedom. Others pay by giving up options or finances or relationships.
Here are a few things that are true for everybody who goes after a dream:
The Dream is Free, but the Journey Isn’t
If you want to achieve a dream, you have to be willing to do more than just imagine the outcome. You have to be willing to pay he price. Dream believers are in abundance. Dream buyers are rare.
The Price Will Be Higher Than You Expect
All dreams have a price tag on them, and the cost is almost always higher than a person expects to pay. Never once in my conversations with successful people have I heard the words, “Getting to the top was much easier than I anticipated.” Everybody I know who have realized a dream has war stories to tell.
8. The Tenacity Question: Am I Moving Closer to My Dream?
Study the lives of leaders and entrepreneurs, and you see that all share the quality of tenacity. Despite negative circumstances, obstacles and injustices, they persevere. They move closer to their dreams day by day.
If you are not moving closer to your dream, then you may not be tenacious enough in your pursuit of it. They key to developing greater tenacity is to change, not to work harder at the same things. Consider which of the things mentioned in the chapter you need to focus on:
- Change Your Thinking
- Change Your Perspective
- Change Your Work Habits
9. The Fulfillment Question: Does Working toward My Dream Bring Satisfaction?
Achieving a dream is about more than just what you accomplish. It’s about who you become in the process! A great dream isn’t merely a destination. It’s the catalyst for a great journey. If you want the pursuit of your dream to be sustainable, it needs to bring you satisfaction.
10. The Significance Question: Does My Dream Benefit Others?
You must ask your self one final question if you truly want to put your dream to the test, to measure whether it is a dream worth dedicating your life to. It is not a complicated question. In fact, you will find that this question requires the least explanation. However, this final question has the most far-reaching impact. It is the Significance Question: Does my dream benefit others?
The great men and women of history were not great because of what they earned and owned. They were great because they gave themselves to people and causes that lived beyond them. Their dream was to do something that benefited others. Rare minorities of people are able to hold closely to their dream to make a difference and are willing to give up everything to make that dream come true. Of people like that, it will never be said that when they die, it was as though they never lived. Their dreams live on after them because they lived for others.
This is powerful stuff. I encourage you to download and print these 10 questions and read them over again every month. Better still, you can purchase his book, “Put Your Dream to the Test.” If you want to be an achiever, then put your dreams to the test.
Thought for the Day:
“Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat.”
–Teddy Roosevelt