A person’s observable behavior is an indication of their character.  This behavior can be strong or weak, good or bad.  A person with strong character shows drive, energy, determination, self-discipline, will power, and nerve.  They see what they want and go after it.  They attract followers.  On the other hand, a person with weak character shows none of these traits.  They do not know what they want.  Their traits are disorganized, they vacillate and are inconsistent.  They will attract no followers.

A strong person can be good or bad.  A gang leader is an example of a strong person with a bad character, while an outstanding community leader is one with both strong and good characteristics.  An organization needs leaders with both strong and good characteristics, people who will guide them to the future and show that they can be trusted.

Here are the Six Pillars of Character:

I.     Trustworthiness

Be honest.  Don’t deceive, cheat or steal.  Be reliable — do what you say you’ll do.  Have the courage to do the right thing.  Build a good reputation.  Be Loyal — stand by your family, friends and country.

II.   Respect

Treat others with respect; follow the Golden Rule.  Be tolerant of differences.  Use good manners, not bad language.  Be considerate of the feelings of others.  Don’t threaten, hit or hurt anyone.  Deal peacefully with anger, insults and disagreements.

III. Responsibility

Do what you are supposed to do.  Persevere:  keep on trying!  Always do your best.  Use self-control.  Be self-disciplined.  Think before you act — consider the consequences.  Be accountable for your choices.

IV. Fairness

Play by the rules.  Take turns and share.  Be open-minded; listen to others.  Don’t take advantage of others.  Don’t blame others carelessly.

V.   Caring

Be kind.  Be compassionate and show you care.  Express gratitude.  Forgive others.  Help people in need.

VI. Citizenship

Do your share to make your school and community better.  Cooperate.  Get involved in Community affairs.  Stay informed; vote.  Be a good neighbor.  Obey laws and rules.  Respect authority.  Protect the environment.

Thought for the Day:

Personality can open doors, but only character can keep them open.

–Elmer G. Letterman